Why is effective listening important in communication?

Strong and effective communication skills are essential in a field where emotions often reach critical mass. Professionals must be equipped to help families process complex information intertwined with decision-making that can have a lifetime impact on both the potential donor family and those they have the ability to help through donation. Teamwork is imperative for everyone involved.

Surprisingly, one key aspect of communication is often overlooked or underrated by professionals in this field the power and impact of listening

When asked, most professionals will say that they are good active listeners. Its surprising to realize how rarely people actually do attentively listen to one another when interacting. We allow ourselves to be distracted, preoccupied by other matters of importance, or thinking about what were going to say next. In fact, one of the most difficult communication skills to learn is to give someone the respect and consideration they deserve by being fully present and giving others our full attention.

Listening has been shown to be essential to communicating respect for another person. To test this claim, reflect on your own feelings. Consider a time when you may have been talking with someone who interrupted you or continually focused on what they wanted to express in the conversation. Maybe it was clear that their mind was elsewhere and they werent at all fully present with you. When we want to build a strong relationship with another person, our ability and commitment to listening attentively and empathically is essential.

Not all listening is the same

Passive listening is little more than hearing. Passive listening is listening without reacting: allowing someone to speak, without interrupting. Not doing anything else at the same time, and yet not really paying attention to whats being said. Passive listening is one-way communication where the receiver doesnt provide feedback or ask questions and may or may not understand the senders message.

Active listening includes responses that demonstrate that you understand what the other person is trying to tell you about his or her experience. This is a communication technique thats very different from the passive or unfocused listening that we often adopt in everyday conversation.

When you accurately reflect back to a person whats been said, you show that youve been listeningnot just hearingand that you genuinely understand the feeling/s or message/s they are trying to convey. This creates an environment that allows the speaker to go deeper, and sometimes even to come to new realizations. Its the basis for trust and respect. Its also the foundation you need to better serve both donor and recipient families.

Active listening is a conscious effort that demands empathy, effort, attention, and lots of practice

When faced with speaking to bereaved families, healthcare professionals often express the fear of saying the wrong thing. This may reflect anxiety about triggering intense emotions. Another concern is that we might feel inadequate in our ability to offer comfort and support. And this is certainly understandable. In reality, no words alone can relieve the familys loss and pain. What is important to remember is that by implementing active listening tools and techniques, youll be able to provide an environment where families can safely talk about their experiences and begin to come to terms with this life-changing event. Being listened to increases peoples ability to rally their own coping skills and, at the same time, provides comfort and healing in times of greatest need. Your knowledge and skills may make all the difference to many families.

Becoming an effective communicator is a dynamic process and lifetime pursuit. There is much, much more to active listening and to the many other skills that will help you provide excellent care to potential donor families and to communicate effectively with your team members.

Active listening builds strong relationships and, while it may not come naturally to many of us, its an invaluable communication skill. Becoming an excellent listener will take determination and practiceandit will be well worth it in both your professional and personal life.

Patricia Mulvania has more than 30 years experience in the healthcare field, beginning her career by providing emergency patient care in the pre-hospital setting. Since, Patriciahas served in leadership roles in the emergency department, home-care, and hospice arenas.

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